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A GUIDE TO OVERCOME DEPRESSION

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Of all life stressors that we go through in life, loss is the most difficult one to overcome. The path towards the reorganization of our life after a significant loss is a long and difficult one. The more significant the loss, the longer and more difficult is the path towards having a normal life again. Our life is shattered, and we are pervaded by emptiness, sadness, apathy, loneliness and fear. Often the feeling of disorientation will lead us to a lack of meaning and confusion regarding our beliefs. Our life as we knew it suddenly evaporates and all we see are debris all around us like after a deadly storm.

CUIDEMOS LO QUE LA VIDA NOS DIO

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Estando un día en un ómnibus que me llevaba desde Bariloche a Villa La Angostura, por un instante dejé de mirar la espléndida escena que nos rodeaba porque una anciana sentada a dos filas delante mío me llamó curiosamente la atención. La señora se hallaba sentada en la fila de asientos al lado mío, dos asientos más adelante. Tenía sobre sus rodillas una chalina de lana gris oscuro con flores rosadas que sostenía con las dos manos. Con extremo cuidado levantó el borde derecho para ir doblando la prenda lentamente hasta terminar formando un cuadrado pequeño. Al ella terminar su tarea no pude menos que preguntarme qué había sido lo que me había llamado tanto la atención; y mientras pensaba, se me hizo viva la imagen de la anciana en su casa ordenando sus querencias. “Esta es una señal” –me dije. Yo creo firmemente en las señales que nos llegan desde afuera para ayudarnos a desarrollar una vida ordenada y de profundo significado. Fueron pasando los años y hoy, cuando ya estoy en la tercera...

A MEDIDA QUE NOS VAMOS

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A medida que el tiempo transcurre es mayor el silencio del alma, van desapareciendo los recuerdos y van muriendo las esperanzas. Los rostros que durante años nos rodearon dejaron de ocupar nuestro espacio vacío, y a medida que el tiempo transcurre es menor el deseo de seguir recordando. Muchas menos son las sombras de la noche, y pocos son los deseos que un día tuvimos, pero lo que nos queda tiene color de oro y perfume de horas y flores desconocidas.

TELEPATHY CURRENT UNDERSTANDING

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" Telepathy is considered a type of extrasensory perception (psi), … there is no conclusive evidence that telepathy occurs naturally without technological assistance. Research continues at the intersection of neuroscience, consciousness studies, and quantum physics, exploring whether subtle, non-physical connections between minds might exist (Amiettkumar, Science News Today.)” “Mi tío Vincenzo vivió con nosotros hasta que murió, a la edad de 56 años, de un ataque cardíaco en la provincia de Córdoba donde había ido a pasar unas vacaciones. En realidad, no era tío de mi hermano y mío, sino que era un tío de mi madre que había adquirido para ella la figura de padre. Esto había ocurrido cuando, de joven, mi madre se había enterado de que mi abuelo había hecho sufrir mucho a mi abuela con sus interminables aventuras amorosas, y entonces decidió reemplazarlo en sus afectos por su tío. Tío Vincenzo era un soltero empedernido que había tenido que irse de Italia porque, durante la época...

LONELINESS IN OUR LAST STAGE HAS TO DO WITH OTHERS

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A few years ago, due to my divorce, I moved from Coral Gables to Miami Beach. While living right on the beach by the sea brings me a lot of serenity and joy for life, the fact that in Miami Beach it’s very hard to make new friends annoys me. It was then that a former work colleague suggested introducing me to one of her friends who, coincidentally, lives very near me and is also from Argentina. After my colleague gave me her name and phone number, I sent her a text message and we both decided to meet for dinner at a nearby restaurant. While at this stage of my life I prefer to have lunch rather than dinner, my colleague's friend replied that she was very busy with work during the day and that having lunch was not an option for her. So we agreed to have dinner instead. On the day we were supposed to meet, I arrived at the restaurant a little early and decided to wait for my future friend while enjoying a glass of chilled white wine. And so half an hour went by without her showing up...

CUANDO LA PLAYA ESTÁ VACÍA

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Cuando la playa se encuentra solitaria y vacía, mis recuerdos se borran y se duermen mis penas. Cuando nadie pisa esa arena blanca y las aves se entregan a su silencioso vuelo, mi alma se adormece con el ruido del agua

WHAT YOU DO TO OTHERS YOU DO TO YOURSELF (Eckhart Tolle)

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I often wondered about the hidden meaning of that phrase. I had a marriage that, although it lasted thirty years, was the source of profound suffering for me. After the relationship ended in a quick divorce, my then-husband decided to remarry a younger woman who shared his religion. Meanwhile, I moved into an apartment in Miami Beach. In the years that followed, there were many nights when I pondered the truth behind Eckhart Tolle’s famous saying. From the outside, my ex-husband had created a new life for himself, while I was desperately trying to adjust to the solitude of my new home. Fortunately, my apartment offered a beautiful view of the ocean, which made my nights feel less lonely. One day, while walking along Miami Beach boardwalk, I ran into the man who had been my partner for so many years. At first I barely recognized him; his face had changed—he had aged. After a brief greeting and farewell, I headed home, my thoughts returning once again to Tolle’s famous proverb. Although ...