MARINA OPPENHEIMER BOOKS AND BLOG

 Man is a social being," stated Aristotle in his time, and the truth is that no one can deny it; when we are alone for a long time, our mind stops working properly, getting lost in the glimpses of madness.  That is why prisoners who are left in solitary confinement suffer from mental and physical problems, as well as from suicidal ideation.  But it's also true that our relationships with others often break us. Not only the love relationships that at the beginning make us touch the sky with our hand sometimes end up defeating us, but also the work relationships which, if we are excellent employees, provoke the competition of others.  The same goes for our friendships, especially those of middle age, when we begin to look back to see what we have achieved in life. If by any chance our life seems to be more successful than others, in our most difficult moments there will be verbal aggressions and hidden smiles coming our way.  Such is life; envy and competition tra...

  This is how this first disciple of Epicurus pronounced himself in the fourth century BC, and with such a dictum dismantled our tendency to possess money and expensive objects to fill our lives. I often think of Metrodorus while I am driving down a street in the city where I live, and I find myself surrounded by cars whose price is so high that it scares me; although what scares me the most is that surely ninety percent of those drivers complain daily about the situation of the country's economy. Even worse, I am horrified by the example we are setting for our children about what really has value in life. While I always liked to live well, luxury seems harmful instead. However, it was only with the passage of time that I realized where the true treasures of human existence are found. With age I was able to understand that the ability to live with a high degree of morality, generosity, compassion, and respect for all living beings is what really counts. As the Epicurean philosophe...

Así se pronunció este primer discípulo de Epicuro en el siglo cuarto antes de Cristo, echando por tierra con semejante dicho nuestra tendencia a desear dinero y objetos caros para llenarnos la vida. Se me ocurre pensar en Metrodorus cada vez que manejo por alguna calle de la ciudad en la que vivo, y me veo rodeada de automóviles cuyo precio es tan alto que me asusta; aunque lo que más me asusta es que seguramente el noventa por ciento de esos conductores se queja a diario de lo mal que está la economía del país. Peor aun, me horroriza el ejemplo que les estamos dando a nuestros hijos sobre lo que realmente tiene valor en esta vida. Si bien siempre me gustó vivir bien, el lujo en cambio me parece da ñ ino; pero fue con el pasar del tiempo que fui dándome cuenta donde se encuentran los verdaderos tesoros de la existencia humana. Me refiero a la capacidad de vivir con un alto grado de moralidad, generosidad, compasión, y respeto por todos los seres vivientes. Como bien dijo el filósofo ep...

  Last Sunday, while I was on the beach with my friend Marisa, I told her that I should be more tolerant of others. "Who are you referring to? she asked me. -To those who cut my way in traffic, to those who do not greet others when they enter the elevator, to those who destroy water taps in the park, and to the neighbors who ignore you for being from another country. "     "Excellent purpose," my friend replied. I hope you’ll make it." I looked at her doubtfully; at no time did I think I could change my attitude.   It happened that in the evening, when I lowered the blind in my bedroom, the remote control stopped because the battery was discharged. Since I don't like sleeping with the blind completely down, the next day, after walking my dog, I went to the hardware store to buy new batteries. I had a hard time finding those batteries because they are not widely used; but I finally ended up in a store that had them.   I decided to buy two so as not t...