BEWARE OF NARCISSISTIC LANGUAGE TRAPS
Anybody who has shared her life with a narcissistic becomes an expert in walking on eggshells. Living with a narcissist is like living with the enemy because we gradually become the container of his anger and his habit of diminishing others; as a result, our self-esteem is shattered. What does it mean to be a narcissist? Besides being grandiose and having a sense of entitlement, narcissists lack empathy and introspection, and consequently always find a way to blame others when things go wrong. It is true that narcissists are not born that way; they become narcissists thanks to the flawed parenting skills of their parents. Being born to a narcissist mother or father who does not try at any time to understand her baby’s needs and only thinks about her expectations has dreadful results. Regardless of how we analyze it, the narcissistic attachment is dysfunctional and has to do with manipulating the child in order to satisfy the needs of the parent. Unfortunately, once we develop a n...